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The Ref (1994)

The Ref poster
Directed by
Ted Demme
Genre
drama film, comedy film, crime film, Christmas film
Country
United States
Runtime
1h 37m
Rated
R
Rating
6.6 of 10 from 378 voters
Elsewhere
IMDb

How it feels

A burglar on the run takes a married couple hostage on Christmas Eve. He ends up stuck refereeing their endless arguments while also dealing with the husband's nosy relatives.

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What happens

The Ref (Hostile Hostages in some countries) is a 1994 American black comedy film directed by Ted Demme, written by Richard LaGravenese and Marie Weiss, and starring Denis Leary, Judy Davis, and Kevin Spacey. The plot centers on a burglar who, while evading capture from the police, is forced to take a bickering, dysfunctional family hostage on Christmas Eve. The burglar finds himself having to act as a de facto marriage counselor, or "referee", between the squabbling husband and wife, a situation that becomes more complicated when the husband's relatives drop by for Christmas dinner. The film was released by Buena Vista Pictures Distribution on March 11, 1994 and was a box office disappointment, though positive reviews praised its dark humor, dialogue, and performances. It later found a wider audience through home video and cable television airings, becoming a cult movie and an alternative to traditional Christmas movies during the holiday season. (from Wikipedia, CC BY-SA)

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